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THE SPACE TO FULLY EMBRACE YOUR MOTHERING

The short ‘n sweet about it:

The PROGRAM

for you to explore your journey as a mother, make sense of it and gain tools and resources to go through it with less guilt and with more ease and support.

4 months together

7 mamas full of wisdom

1 certified Seasons of Matrescence® Guide to hold you all the way.

You’re not alone in this, mama. I got you!

Join the waitlist!

Be the first to know about the next group starting in Sep/Oct and get a bonus discount to join the program.

Becoming a mother transforms you.

It’s not what you expected and it’s certainly NOT all fluff and bliss.

YOU FEEL

…disconnected from yourself.

…disoriented and lost

…alone, though you’re never alone.

…like this is too hard, too much, too all at once.

…overwhelmed by the shoulds and the advice.

…like you don’t know who you are anymore.

WHAT IF I TOLD YOU THAT...

You are not broken.

You are not alone in this.

You are not stuck here forever.

You are not dissappearing.

You are going through matrescence.

matrescence

is all of your lived experiences since you became a mama. All the changes, the mixed feelings of guilt, love, excitement, anger, all the ways in which you’ve changed and keep on changing, all the ups and downs, the crazy thoughts, the pressure, the joy and the grief for what you’ve lost.

Ok, that and a lot more that we’ll discover together.

a peek inside

IMAGINE FOR A MOMENT THAT...

…you could feel more connected to yourself.

…you could be more accepting, kind and compassionate to yourself (yeah, like you are with your kid in the moments your tank is full).

…your intuition and values were the ones guiding your mothering and not the shoulds.

…your inner critic would be less vocal and your inner knowing more heard.

…your mothering story would be told, seen, acknowledged and valued.

…you could share and be supported by women who understand you and see you.

THAT IS PART OF WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO GET FROM 

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The space to allow you to fully embrace your mothering, own it and carry it proudly into the world.

Your story matters.

It is not just another mother story fading in the background of our society’s history. It’s not lost in the ocean of mothers’ stories that fade away when the child is born. YOUR STORY IS YOURS and yours alone. Unique, full of versions of yourself you’ve nurtured and future versions of yourself you’ll become.

It needs to be said, listened to, acknowledged and HELD. With LOVE, respect, reverance and care.

Your mother work matters.

You matter. You are a good mother. You are filled with potential, creativity, wisdom, love and authenticity. I know that! Yes, even if I dont’t know you. Just because you are! This program is not meant to give you power, parenting advice or more boxes to tick to feel like you’re good enough.

You are already worthy.

You have all the power.

You have the answers.

This program

is meant to be your space in which you reconnect with yourself - the woman and the mother, with your story and the power already there. You will feel seen, heard and supported by other amazing mothers like you. You will find a tribe, a village, a place for your new self to grow and be acknowledged.

I will be with you in this journey.

I’m Simona

Your supporter in fully embracing your mothering.

I’ve been around children and their mamas for the past 10 years, first as a Montessori Guide, then as a parent consultant, then as a parenting guide and NOW as a Seasons of Matrescence® Guide and a supporter for mamas.

I believe mothers aren’t valued and seen enough, as humans and as women. I am constantly in awe of what a mother goes through in her matrescence. Mostly unacknowledged and seen as trivial. Enough.

I am here to create space for mothers to acknowledge, tell and carry their stories bravely into the world. I am here to be with you mama, in your seasons of matrescence, to help you make sense of your experiences and honor the gifts you have.

You are an amazing woman, a powerful mama, a force of nature.

You deserve a tribe.

Join us in a 4 month journey that will be filled with AHA moments, tears, connection, insights big and small, belonging, support, acceptance and a strong sense of being held, seen and understood.

Here’s what other mamas said:

  • SMP helped me understand the tools I can use to gather more resources and it also showed me the kindness, care and compassion I needed to accept myself just as I am, with the good and the bad and showed me that it's ok. It felt breathtaking sometimes, from agony to ecstasy, touching and soothing (I still carry the picture in my mind of the imagery exercise that came like the cherry on top). I loved it! I feel like I’ve grown in all areas and that I learned something from each of the other moms.

    Loredana, amazing mom of 1 boy

  • I managed to untangle things about me. To understand what is happening to me. Why I have certain feelings. I don’t think I could have spoken to anybody the way I talked to you all. It felt good. A cure for the soul. I needed someone to see me. To be able to say things without being judged. It was like a confession. Where I could learn from you and the other moms. I feel fulfilled now that I got to do this. It was necessary for me to be able to grow a bit more.

    Ionela, amazing mom to 1 boy&1girl

  • I managed to understand I’m not broken. My biggest goal after this program is to stop whipping myself and to treat myself the way I treat others, with the same care and understanding. It was a very emotionally full journey and surprising. Now I feel better about myself because I understood it is ok to make mistakes. I think any mother needs this. If I had this in my first year as a mom, maybe I could have handled the next years of motherhood better.

    Andreea Ipate, amazing mom of 1 boy

Your place is here

if what you’ve read so far has given you goosebumps, has made your skin tingle, feel warm or cold, teary, seen, if it stopped you in your tracks, excited you AND if you’re looking for a program that truly accepts you just as you are right now and trusts all the versions of you that you’ll become.

AND IF YOU’RE IN NEED OF MORE SPECIFIC DETAILS TO HELP YOU DECIDE, HERE THEY COME.

Our gatherings

will take place every week, on Tuesdays/Wednesdays from 10:00 AM (CET) and will last for 1 or 1.5 hours depending on our type of gathering. You mean there are different types? Why, yes I dooo.

MASTERCLASSES

Where we dive deep in topics that are meant to help you redefine your idea of mothering, connect you to your values and your story, manage your expectations, understand your mothering in a bigger system and create stability when everything seems to be out of control and accept yourself with more kindness.

Some topics that we’ll cover:

  • Matrescence. What is it? How does it impact me? What season of matrescence am I in?

  • The “good mother” and how it impacts your mothering.

  • Mothering and motherhood - yes they’re different and yes, it matters!

  • Reconciling expectations with reality and redefining success.

  • How do we create stability and how do we align with our inner cyclical rhythm?

  • Practices and tools to keep us regulated and grounded.

  • Mother guilt and how to receive ourselves with compassion.

  • Mothering as a process of growth and connection to your inner wisdom.

I knoooow, it sounds amazing! And it is!

MOTHER CIRCLES

These are the gatherings in which you can share, listen and feel part of a tribe that feels you. Once every 2 weeks we gather for 1 h and you get the chance to hold space for yourself and for the other mothers. From experience, I tell you, these gatherings are gold! They provide a support and relief you didn’t know you needed and they bring to light answers and reflections you didn’t expect.

These gatherings will alternate, giving time for the information you receive in Masterclasses to settle and to bring forth reflections that come from them. 

Other details (technical and not only):

  • We’ll meet on Zoom, online, 1/week for 1h/1.5 h (Mother Circles/ Masterclasses).

  • You’ll have access to a private Whatsapp/Signal group where you can share your wins, connect, support and be supported.

  • Total commitment time: 6h/month (including Gatherings and your homelove (it’s not homework, yes?).

  • It is a small, intimate group, where connection is bound to happen and space for each of you to feel seen and supported.

  • I am present at and facilitating all gatherings.

  • We start on March 20th.

  • You’ll get a calendar with all the calls after joining the program.

By the end of this program you will:

  • Understand what matrescence is and how it impacts you.

  • Find out what season of matrescence you’re in.

  • Find out what influences your mothering.

  • Get in touch with your values and priorities.

  • Identify your expectations and align them with your lived reality.

  • Learn how to create stability when all is constantly shifting.

  • Learn how to practice self-compassion.

  • Have a set of nervous system regulation practices at hand.

  • Know what it feels like to be supported by women who share similar experiences.

  • Learn to get in touch with your intuition and let it guide you.

  • Feel the power of saying your story outloud.

  • Identify how you’ve grown since becoming a mother.

THAT MEANS YOU’LL BE ABLE TO:

  • Mother aligned with your values and priorities.

  • Make decisions that you trust and own, trusting your inner knowledge.

  • Use the Seasons of Matrescence Model to identify and accept where you are in your mothering journey, know what you need and what comes next. Whenever.

  • Be kinder, more compassionate and more connected to yourself.

  • Engage in practices that keep you sane.

  • Align with your inner cycle and use this power to live with more intention, actually planning and answering your needs accordingly.

This program is a journey of self-discovery and of connection.

It changes the way you think about mothering and the way you feel about yourself as a woman and as a mother. It gives you the connection you’re craving and it reminds you of your power.

It quite honestly blows your mind.

If you deeply want:

  • to feel seen and acknowledged as a mother

  • to connect to other women who get you

  • to take control of your mothering and let the ‘shoulds’ fly past you

  • to be more connected to yourself

  • to trust your inner knowing as a mother

  • to share and be supported without judgement

  • to be inspired by other mamas’ stories

  • to have time and space for YOU

Then the Supported Mom Program is for you!

Q&As

  • Yes! This program is meant for mothers who feel like they need support in their journey as mother, who need a space to share and be listened to and who really want to look at their story as mothers and at what is true for them now. So, fresh mom, mom for 2, 3, 4, years, mom who’s disconnected from herself, you’re welcome. I believe the sooner you take this program the better.

  • The program lasts for 4 months (March-June) and we meet weekly, on Tuesdays/Wednesdays at 10:00 AM (cet), online, via Zoom. We’ll have live calls that can be Masterclasses (1.5 h) or Mother Circles (1 h).

  • MASTERCLASSES

    Where we dive deep in topics that are meant to help you redefine your idea of mothering, connect you to your values and your story. These are the mind part of the program, the rational.

    MOTHER CIRCLES

    These are the gatherings in which you can share, listen and feel part of a tribe that feels you. From experience, I tell you, these gatherings are gold! They provide a support and relief you didn’t know you needed and they bring to light answers and reflections you didn’t expect. These are the more spiritual, emotional part of the program, getting your soul and body present.

    I told you it is a complex,, holistic program, that sees all of you. 🫶

  • MASTERCLASSES

    I help you get connected to and better understand matrescence and how it impacts you, important topics that help you gain a wider perspective, so that you can understand your experience better. You learn and sit with the information you get and then you get to work on it with the homelove you get to help you.

    MOTHER CIRCLES

    We get your body and soul nurtured with intention and we allow your intuition to speak its wisdom. I guide the circles and use meditation, journaling, breathing and dropping into our bodies to help you reflect, set intentions and allow your wisdom to bubble to the surface. This is when you get to share, to hold space and to witness the wonderful power of women gathering in circle.

  • I really hope you can make it live, to get to share and ask questions and feel the group energy. If you cannot, no worried, the gatherings are recorded and you have access to them after the calls.

  • While I recommend you to try and have this time for yourself, I also know that this is a mother I’m talking to, so life happens many times. Hon, I see you, I get you. Your child can be with you in the call and you’ll try to make the most of it given the context. Better than missing it.

  • I get it! I got you! 1:1 support is not included in the program. If you do feel the need for that, love, tell me and we make it happen.

  • You click the link under the plan and the first payment will be done automatically. After that, at the beginning of each month that follows, you will get a payment link via email and pay the amount in max 3 days.

  • Yes, if there are mamas from other nationalities than Romanian. If there are only Ro speaking mamas, it will be in Romanian. You will be notified before the program starts.

  • This is an intimate small group of maximum 7 mamas, to create the bond and safe space for each of them to open, share, feel seen and supported. We will see each other weekly, alternating between Masterclasses and Mother Circles.

    Mother Circles will provide nurturing opportunities for bonding and holding space. Additionally you have access to the private group created for this sisterhood, on Signal/WhatsApp.

  • This is a 4 month program that takes all of you into consideration. Your mind, your soul and your body. We don’t just look at information with your mind and learn about matrescence. We create a space for you to actually bring your mind, body and soul at the table, to explore your lived experience as a mother and make sense of it. This is not a program to give you advice about how to mother, how to be better, how to not lose it. This is a program meant to connect you to your wisdom, by redefining what mothering is for you, your relationship with your womanhood and allowing your intuition to guide the process.

    You are enough, you have the power, this will just allow it resurface. You will be held by sisters, guided with gentleness and transform.

Discovery Cup

If you want to sync our energies and get a feel of what I’m about before you make a decision, please don’t hesitate to book a

15 minutes online call to find out if we resonate and if I am the right person to support in your journey, mama.

Signs that this program is for you:

  • You feel disconnected from yourself/your partner/baby/the world.

  • You are having a hard time adjusting to all the changes that came with mothering.

  • Things were good so far, you’re 2-3 years into motherhood but you started feeling depleted, like you’ve hit rock bottom and it’s here to stay.

  • You’re postpartum and needing support and connection (mind you, postpartum can be even 2 years from birth).

  • You feel the need to connect with women who get you and see you without judgement.

  • You experience a lot of “taboo” emotions and find it hard to reconcile with them (anger, frustration, you know the ones).

  • You judge yourself harshly and you constantly feel like you’re not enough as a mother.

  • You feel you lost control and find it hard to feel stable.

  • You’re overhwhelmed with the day to day tasks of caring for your child and need space for you.

  • You feel uncertain of your decisions as a mother and always look outside for answers and advice.

  • You’ve never had time and space to reflect about all you’ve experienced since becoming a mother.

  • Feel alone, misunderstood and unsupported.

  • You feel in-between, in the middle of a massive change, uncertain and confused.

  • You expect it to be a parenting advice type of program.

  • You are not willing to offer support to the mamas in the group, showing respect, care and a judgement-free attitude towards them.

  • You’re not ready to do some inner work and reflect on your experiences.

THIS PROGRAM IS NOT FOR YOU IF:

Partial Scholarship Opportunity

I truly want all mamas to benefit from this program and I know that many times life does not create the context we need to be supported. So my way of improving this context a little bit is to offer a 75% discounted spot (610 RON) in my program to a mama who feels defavorised in any way and cannot afford paying the full price, but who is trully invested in participating and open to being a part of this program.

This may include and is not limited to disabled mamas, single moms who can’t afford paying the full price, moms who do not have a supportive partner and cannot afford paying the full price, moms who have child/children with disabilities, Romani, Black, Indigenous, People of Color, LGBTQIA+.

If you feel that you want to participate and simply cannot afford the full price, please fill out the form below to get in the program.

The form CAN BE FILLED BY MARCH 15TH, so that I have enough time to read through your answers and select one mama to get the partial scholarship.

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